Celebrate your favorite mermaid with a fun mermaid tea party birthday!
It took us a minute to come up with a party theme that both me and my baby could agree on. She wanted a princess theme again, we did that for her 3rd birthday, and she really loves princesses. However, I really wanted to encourage her to do something new.
She had so much fun at her bros Carnival themed birthday party in the Spring and told me that’s what she wanted for a month.
So I pulled out all my best tricks and told her all the amazing things we could do if we did a mermaid themed party.
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To really make it amazing (and cause I really love tea parties) we decided to make it a mermaid tea party. And it was perfection!

Sometimes I think that I love making these fun girl themed parties so I can live vicariously through my daughter. Now my mom did amazing birthday parties, we always had such fun things.
She was super creative before the internet was around. But when I get to be in charge of the party, I get to do everything that I could ever want (in my budget).
Lilie was so happy with her party, she told me “Thank you for my awesome party” multiple times today. Love this little mermaid!

Tea parties are one of my favorite things to do. Β
You get to make lots of delicious and beautiful little finger foods and treats, then sit around sipping tea and eating thoseΒ treats! Β Who wouldn’t love that?

To start the party off with the theme, we needed invitations that screamed mermaid.
So I made a simple scales pattern with some beautiful blues, turquoises and grays. Β Then added accents ofΒ purple andΒ a mermaid silhouette. Β
I love how it turned out so much, I made a blank one you can use for your own mermaid tea party.Β Or you can use the mermaid scales digital paper and mermaid clipart to make your own invitation.

Mermaid Tea Party Food Ideas
Tea party serving dishes:
For our mermaid tea party, I started with the food. The food is my favorite part of a tea party.
Because it’s still been so hot, and we’re dealing with little kids, I opted for 2 iced teas: mint and an herbal tea that was supposed to be passion fruit but my sister accidentally gave me a citrus one.
It was still delicious, but not the beautiful pink it was supposed to be.

For the mint tea, I used a couple tea bags and then added lots of fresh mint. I left the mint on the stems so it looked like seaweed.
And we called it mint seaweed tea! The kids were worried that I was actually feeding them tea made of seaweed π

The cake was my favorite part, not because it’s amazing, but because it’s so easy to make a cake when you have an ocean/beach theme because you can just top it off with graham crackers crumbs.

I started off just planning to make mini cupcakes because I wanted everything small for the tea party, but then I baked 2 trays of mini cupcakes (for 48 total) and still had a ton of batter.
I didn’t really want to make 100+ mini cupcakes that I would then have to frost and figure out how to plate, so I dumped the rest of the batter in a round cake pan and then just went with it.
I’m so glad I did, because then I could have a cake with candles for Lilie to blow out. And it turned out pretty adorable.

For more fun food, we had sand dollar cookies. I used a basic soft sugar cookie recipe, then pressed 5 pieces of sliced almonds into the top before baking so they looked like sand dollars.

I also made little clam and pearl cookies. I used Nilla wafers and piped some frosting on top of one, placed the second one on it at an angle and put a candy pearl in the middle. These were the kids favorite cookies. They ate them all super fast and were asking for more. And who could blame them? They’re adorable.

To add a little savory to our tea party, we made some peanut butter and jelly sandwiches and cut them with a star cookie cutter (sorry no picture, not sure why).
And made a seashell pasta salad. My kids love pesto, and it is delicious cold without the need to be refrigerated, so it was perfect for our little buffet style party.

For decorations, I hung a blue plastic table cloth behind the food table (and it helped hide the mess in my kitchen since the table was in front of my kitchen island). Then used a little bit of green crepe paper to make seaweed streamers up it.
Super easy, but effective. And I got the blue table cloth and crepe paper for $1 each. I used some decorative fish net to drape over the tea jugs and cake stand, that I bought at Michaels with a 40% off coupon.

I made some cute little food signs with the mermaid scales pattern. If you want to use them for your own mermaid tea party, the files are available in my shop.
This includes the signs I made for Pink Passion Tea, Mint Seaweed Tea, Sand Cakes, Sand Dollar Cookies, Pearl Cookies, Starfish Tea Sandwiches, Sea Shell Salad, and blank labels too!
Mermaid Tea Party Decorations
Supplies:
- Crepe paper streamers
- Curly ribbon
- Balloons (or paper lanterns)
- Hot glue gun and glue sticks
I had this brilliant idea to make helium balloons look like jelly fish instead of using paper lanterns like I saw on Pinterest. This was a great idea in theory, but didn’t work out exactly how I wanted.
The problem was, I waited until the day of the party to buy the balloons so they would be floating great for the party, so then I didn’t have a plan B, or time to improvise.
I had to make it work, and kids love balloons no matter what, so it worked out. But I learned that the helium balloons cannot hold a lot of weight before they start to fall.

I had planned on adding a few different ribbons and strips of crepe paper on the bottom with a little ruffle. My first one started to sag really bad. I shortened the crepe paper streamers and it was better. So I had to choose between the crepe paper or ribbons instead of both.
For the rest of the decorations, I let the games be decor as you will see below.
Mermaid Tea Party Games
Supplies:
- Pearl beads
- Stretchy jewelry cord
- Large clam and pearl pictures
- Paper grocery bag
- Craft glue
- Sand
- Balloons
- Candy and small toys
- Nautical netting
For the games we started by making necklaces with fake pearls and some sea shells that my sister was getting rid of. I was able to easily drill a hole in the sea shells so the kids could thread them onto a necklace.
Next we played pin the pearl on the clam. To make the game, I used a picture of a clam and printed it out. Then printed out some pearls for the kids.
I made a bed of sand for the clam to rest in by cutting a paper grocery bag open, then covering the inside with sand.
I used spray glue at first to secure the sand to the paper bag, but it didn’t hold very much sand so I got out the Elmer’s glue and spread it all over then sprinkled the sand on top of that.
This wasn’t the cleanest project I have ever done, it made a huge mess, but was very pretty.

Then for the final game, I created what I called a mermaid piΓ±ata. We filled “bubbles” (blue, turquoise and white balloons).
I filled them with candies and sticky hands. At the time, there weren’t a lot of things that I could easily fit into the balloons.
We blew them up and secured them to the ceiling in a net. I found this particular string net at the Dollar Tree in the Halloween section.
When it was time for the piΓ±ata, I dropped the corners of the net and the balloons tumbled over the kids, then they had to pop the “bubbles” to get to their prizes.
The mermaid piΓ±ata was a huge hit! The kids weren’t afraid to pop the balloons after they saw there were treats inside.

And we were done! The kids were running around screaming and laughing and having fun, so apparently it was a successful party π
Now I am tired. I just got the house put back together but don’t have energy to do much more, so I’m going to binge watch some Netflix and relax for a day!
All the printables you need to throw your own Mermaid Tea Party party are free to my subscribers. Make sure toΒ subscribe so you will be notified of new freebies.
I love this party. I just signed up to the mailing list so I could have access to the free food tent printables from this mermaid party and it’s saying “page not found”. How do I get these printables? Have they been removed? It was a beautiful party! Thanks.
So sorry, my link was messed up! The printables for this party are in the subscriber library. I updated the link in the post now. Let me know if you need any more help Caitlin!
Thank you, Kati!
Everything here is so creative and well done! Thank you so much for sharing, I joined your subscription. I’m throwing my adorable 4yo a mermaid pool party and have been so inspired by your ideas!! I plan on using your invitation template if possible, but do you know where I can get the font to change the word “tea” to pool? I would be SO SO grateful. I’m working on a tight budget.
I used a font called Pea Ellie Bellie. Have a wonderful party!
I love your mermaid invitations! I wanted to use the template for my daughter’s party… but I can’t find them in your library of downloads. Can you help?
In the library, you will want to scroll down to the Entertainment & Parties section. You should see a picture of the pearl cookies and a bunch of links below it. Click on the word Invitation to download the invite.
This is a very cute idea! We are having a baby shower with a nautical theme. Could you please give me the recipe for the Sea Shell Pasta Salad? I would like to fix this for our party. Thank you!
Hello Brenda! For the salad, all I did was add defrosted frozen peas to cooked shell pasta and toss it with pesto. Super easy and so delicious!
Thank you so much!
Do you have a recipe for the sea shell pasta?
I just mixed cooked shell pasta with basil pesto and green peas and cubes of mozzarella cheese. Super easy, but one of my kids favorite foods (and if I add grilled chicken we can call it dinner).
Hi,
I signed up for your emails. You have such great ideas. I would love to have the templates for the mermaid themed party.
Thanks!
Jamie, you can access all the printable files in the library of free downloads. Check the weekly newsletter for the link and password in case you forgot π
I tried to download the mermaid invite under the free downloads ( I signed up for email newsletter) but I am not seeing the Mermaid invite for download. Is this still available?
Hello RG, I double checked and the invite is under the picture. Click on the word INVITATION and it should pull up. Let me know if you are still having issues, but it worked for me on 2 different devices and 3 different browsers.
Adorable party and great ideas! I can’t wait to try some of these!
Thanks Michelle! It was such a fun party to make and the kids had so much fun.
Awesome party! I love peanut butter and jelly sandwiches. They look tasty and seem to be saying eat me please. I will share this idea with my daughter and she will definitely love it!
Thank you Angela! The party was a huge success and the kids ate all the goodies.
love this!
Thank you Katelyn π
Do you mind sharing what font you used for the tent cards?
Hello Chrissy! Sorry it’s taken so long to answer your question, we were out of town. I used a font called Pea Ellie Bellie for the invite and food label tents. Hope this helps.
I love all the details, awesome.
Thank you Amerah! It was such a fun party to put together.
Any concern about the candy pearl in the little clam and pearl cookies? We will have 2-year olds at the party.
Great ideas!!
Hello Martha! I used a sixlet for the candy pearl. They are made of a soft chocolate with a little candy shell (similar to an M&M but softer, I kept squishing them while placing them on the frosting). I found them at Super Target in their cake decorating section. I hope you have a fun party!
Such a Sweet Party! Love those Nilla Wafer clams! Thanks for linking up to Merry Monday! Sharing on my G+! Have a great week!
Kim
Thank you Kim! Thanks for sharing π
The clam and pearl cookies are awesome π
Thank you. They were delicious π
Omg… I love this Kati! My daughter is gonna be 4 in Dec..Nd I love the party you put together. Gorgeous food and what an angel of a baby! #homemattersparty
Thanks so much! The party was perfect for her. Isn’t having a little girl the best. They are so fun π
So cute! Looks so good! Pinned and tweeted. We truly appreciate you taking the time to be a part of our party. Please stop by and party with us again. The party starts Monday at 7 pm and ends on Friday at 7 pm. Happy Sunday! Lou Lou Girls
Thank you π I love to party with you too!
Looks like an awesome party!
Thank you Hil! It was perfect for her.
All of this is too cute! I love a good themed party. I made a Little Mermaid Birthday Cake for my niece’s first birthday last year. I wish I would have thought of the clam cookies. They are adorable, and yes, yummy! Next time!
Thank you Sarah! Aren’t mermaid parties fun? I had a blast finding new ideas. The clam cookies were definitely a favorite!
Great party! Love all your details! I totally get when we have great ideas and they don’t work out the way we thought. ha Time to improvise, right? I think your baloons still turned out great! Genius mermaid pinata idea too! Seriously, applause from over here!
Thanks Lara! I think the balloons turned out okay, but in my head they were going to be much more awesome. Oh well, the rest of the party worked out how I wanted π
This party is adorable! I love all the little details. You are so creative! That mermaid pinata is probably my favorite part. It adds a lot to the decorations and is a fun game for the kids at the same time.
Thanks Jenna! The mermaid piΓ±ata was a winner for sure. I love that it was decor and a game, made my life easier!
This party is SO CUTE!!!! I adore those clam and pearl cookies! She must have loved it.
The clam and pearl cookies were the kids favorite too! FYI Nilla wafers and buttercream icing are delicious π
What a sweet party! I love the mermaid inspired touches – especially the seaweed and mermaid themed food. The balloon piΓ±ata was a great idea too! Your daughter must have felt so special.
Thank you Natalie! She keeps telling me thank you for the party so I am guessing she felt pretty special. It was fun for me too π
Wow, this is awesome, my daughter would love this idea! She is way into mermaids right now. I love the bubble pinatas and those clam cookies. Pinning and sharing this on my blog’s FB page, thanks! π
Thank you Bernadyn. It was such a fun party, and the mermaid piΓ±ata was definitely my favorite part!
What a cute party! I love theme parties and this is a wonderful one.
Thanks Carlee! I love themed parties too, they are so much fun to put together.